He's Just Not That Into You - The Sequel

[mamabird]

Thank you 25 - yes, it's definitely time for a coach. I can't do this alone anymore and I feel like our MC is not my advocate.

One of the problems I had in this M was not standing up for myself enough - as far as feelings were concerned. Yes, I'm quite headstrong in plenty of ways but not with feelings and vulnerability. Now I have to stand up for my own feelings and H is just seeing it as more steamrolling. I also have to be honest with myself about my feelings. I know the M doesn't HAVE to end but I do think that it probably will. I don't think my H has it in him to do the work that has to be done, honestly. H thinks I'm awful and terrible and I can't see how he'll ever get past that without a serious shift in perspective.

H also said he doesn't think I'm capable of growing and changing. So with an attitude like that, how do we ever stand a chance?