it's hard for me to know what to make of things b/c you didn't pay attention to her.... I know you were in a reaction mode, but you must listen better. Seriously...
Also, remember for now, it's about time with your son & showing her that you are a good father...until I know what else she said, I can't assess much more
except SHE SAID the words "working things between you slowly", correct?
IF SO, that's what you need to do.
Let her take the lead on your time, as a couple.
But you make sure to have your father time increased. ... without expecting more from her for now.
Go ahead and ask her to teach you how to do the diapers too. Let her teach you that, and be humble about it, but good humored and maybe afterwards, you can thank her for all the ones she has changed...happily.
And then, as she sees that you have had an awakening, we can hope her heart softens.
I think mine would.
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