just focus on getting more time with your son. That will protect you legally if this is a "ploy" on her part to solidify the present visitation
and will show that you are sincere in wanting that time with him, and not just using it as leverage against her for the divorce.
I don't know that she wants a reconciliation yet, so much as possibly slowing down the choice to divorce...
so I would not suggest a date yet, and I'd think you're nuts if you want to suggest she move in with you now...
If you rush this you can blow it. There's a huge downside to going too fast.
In my opinion one big reason marriages in trouble fail, is b/c they get fearful of divorce & do a false reconciliation, in which they don't make core changes so they revert to their old ways within a few weeks of "reconciling" and Bruce, you are not ready to be the man you need to be yet.
You need to know HOW to lovingly, respectfully treat her over time, consistently, in a new better way. That takes time and practice. NO more snide remarks even just to yourself, b/c they show...no more condescending, no more whining about living near her hometown and family who are dear to her. And you must form a better relationship with her family, and fast...
If you take your time and rebuild this from the foundation up, I see no downside. So slow down.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
