Im so sorry but I think you misunderstood my post. I am in no way insinuating that you are rushing him. I was speaking generally that it's best to let them figure this out on their own.
And trust me, I know what it is to be financially devastated. I would go to the library to take a free class on computers. I would go to read books. I would look into trips I might take one day. It doesnt hurt to dream. You never know what the future holds.
I would see what the park system offered or visit a free museum. There are many parks with walking trails. There are church groups who offer trips. I had to get very creative, but, it is doable.
And it doesnt cost anything to try to figure out who you want to be.
And I was also saying that if you are unclear about your marriage then it is best to wait until you are. I am sorry if I was unclear there.
I was just trying to help. I guess I didnt. Take care.
