I detached, he came back, but now it's BAD

[Snookee]

I know this all sounds like good advice but things are so complex, and I'm probably making it more complex. We had a big fight on Thursday because he said I was going back to my old ways. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. Actually he told me via texting; he wouldn't even talk. So when he came to get stuff I demanded reason why and that he didn't give us a chance and he wouldn't hear a thing. So that's Thursday and Saturday we're going back and forth about him not giving us a real chance, blah blah and all of the same stuff. Again he was at a hotel in a casino and invited me to join. So what did I do? I went. We had a nice time and came home together and things seemed quiet but ok. At home watching TV and he says he'll be back soon. 1/2 hour later he calls and says he's driving up to his friends house for the evening. I said fine.....no argument. He doesn't feel comfortable discussing what's really on his mind and has been saying all along that he doesn't want to see a MC. I am still suggesting short term therapy.

I keep thinking that the relationship with OW is done because she found out about us before and she had him followed and that's when she got rid of him in an instant. I think he's sorry that happened; that was a big meal ticket but I don't think she wants him again. This is way too complicated for me. I feel like I was doing so well with DB'ing and then he's thrown back into my life, but not in the way that's healthy or making things right. I don't know what he will do tomorrow. I am so confused.