Sandi2,

btw - her lawyer is female, and mice male. does that matter?

Is her anger hurt in disguise?

I don't want her to hurt. She said earlier today, she cares about the kids and not a damn about me. That hurt but tried not to show it. She yelled at me in front of the kids.

She really thinks I was the problem in the M, and her only mistake was the A. Therapy did not get that through to her either. Both therapists told her it was 50/50 and she debated both.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.