My H continues to respond to my going dim.

He is back to coming into the house each day after he drops the kids off from school. This will only be for 2 more days - as school stops for the long summer break.
Don't know what he will do then....

He came over on the weekend when S14 and D16 asked him to help with exam revision.

I made myself scarce.
We were in the midst of putting up the Xmas tree and decorations. He didn't comment.

He did help with a couple of things - the TV had 'lost' a couple of channels and we thought it might be the antenna had been dislogded in a recent storm. So H got up on the roof to have a look!!!!!

He also helped S14 shift our big-screen TV so that we could put up the (huge) Xmas tree.

Seems as long as the kids ask and not me, he is OK to help out.

He did drive up in OW's pathetic convertible however, so he still wants to push her in our faces. He didn't park in our driveway however, so that's something, I suppose. Parked it out on the street, which he would never do if he was driving our own car.

Kids said he gave them an extra long hug as he left tonight - and he even came into the office where I was working to say goodbye to me.

Interestingly, I received a note from my health insurance last week saying that H had had urology day surgery recently (he did tell the kids he was having an operation). Just goes to show the truth of the old 'believe nothing that they say rule'.
He told me 15 months ago that he had taken himself off of our family plan.
Right!

The scriptedness of this process continues to amaze me.