The green green grass of home. (Part 2 )

[Soul.Searching]

Thanks Ruby. D9 hasent mentioned it and neither have I.
I called H yesterday to ask him to drop my kids off at a family members house as we were having a BBQ there for dinner. A family member told me to invite him to eat, so I did. I thought H would say no but he said yes.

He came and looked very tired. He kept coming up and talking to me, when he was leaving, he gave me a kiss on the check while no one was out the back. We heard a door and he jumped.

Well when we got home D9 was telling me that they spent the weekend with H one of H's old friends and her son. D seemed a little upset about it but said that she had fun.
I called H to discuss my concern. I found out it was some random girl he met on a dating site. I told him I felt it was far too soon to be introducing the kids to OW.
He got a little angry and said he is allowed friends. He Denys anything is going on.
Umm hello, dating site???
He said he is trying to get the kids some friends up there. They spent the weekend at the beach, parks and her house.
I don't want me kids meeting all these new people, then wondering why they suddenly disappear.
I told him I don't want him sending the message to my kids, that its okay to treat someone like this. That they can just walk away from a marrage and move in right away.

I think he is looking for people to spend the holidays with, with OUR children.
The convo ended with H being agitated and telling me he will talk to the kids, even though I asked he wait for them to bring it up to him.

What a mess. I talked to my kids while they were away and they both told me what they had been doing. Neither of my kids felt appropriate to tell me until we were alone. S8 actually told me he couldn't remember what they done today. I don't think he wanted me to know. He was strangely quiet.

H says they had a ball and didn't even want to come home because they wanted to stay and play with their friend.