I did it based on my own insecurities. I started searching for the magic bullet that would explain her actions and the total demise of our marriage. I went through emails, phone records, facebook, etc. What I found was that she had been contacting people outside of our circle of friends, making phone calls to numbers I didn't recognize and the ultimate was in a text I found where she was telling some man (I do not know who) that she was basically done with the marriage and moving on. She mentioned in that text that our D would be fine, "kids are resilient". After finding this information, I went into orbit and acted out immediately. Afterwords, I quickly realized my mistake. I over analyzed and exaggerated everything and painted a picture of infidelity and total departure from our marriage. I let my imagination run wild and depicted a worse situation than it really was. I'm learning as I go.....
