Hey Snodderly
Yes I thank him. He feels that if there is something that has to be done we should not have to thank each other. I like to say please, thankyou, excuse me etc. He doesn't feel it's necessary. I thanked him for mailing a couple letters and he said don't thank me I was going there anyway. That is one of our issues. Being polite. If he can be nice to strangers and friends our family should get the same treatment. He told the counselor the same and he was told that if it gets him points with me why not? He still argued the point that he shouldn't have to do that.