3 Years after D-Day, part 2. Separated 9 Months.

[Am I Too Late]

Nothing has gone on recently. It is now Sunday and me and my son are cleaning up the living room to move things around to make room to set up our Christmas Tree. He is really looking forward to having it set up.

My W still has not made any contact at all since her visit with our son the day before Thanksgiving. That makes 12 days since she had even spoken with our boy.

That also means she avoided contact to miss out on her promised child support payment. I called the county bar association and a non profit legal assistance aide entity and they could offer no help. I guess i am going to have to file pro se to seek child support. I dread that, even though i am knowledgeable about the laws, but not the actual motions.

Immediately after his karate class yesterday morning, since she didn't show up to watch him again, same as Monday evening, i drove past the bar she goes to, and sure enough, at 11:40 am, her car was in the parking lot, either drinking very early or left there from the previous night.

I am quiting doing those drove by check ups. It does me no good, unless that would need yo come up someday on court, for child custody and visitation.

Other than that, i am focusing better and will eliminate wondering what she is doing.

Alcoholism is so destructive and changes people. I never want that to happen to me again. So, i went to an extra meeting for myself this past week, instead of my typical 3 and went to a 4th meeting.

I think my future posts will be less wife-centric and more about what i am doing for myself and my son.

Ed