I guess this kind of communication takes practice.
It really does. We spent decades learning to communicate the wrong way...it doesn't turn around immediately, and our emotions will still get the best of us occasionally, as will our bad habits. Too often I think we expect our spouse to mind read...we're too impatient to clearly express our feelings.
Originally Posted By: RegretfulLA
I also think it's probably time for a DB coach. This is all getting too nuanced for me to handle on my own.
I highly recommend. When I'm in a rut and really not sure which direction I should be going, this has really helped me. If you do, make sure you spend some time prepping though.
