Found out today that W is speaking with another man. He is someone we both know, but very little, more of an acquittance. He is also going through a similar separation situation and they have been sharing their experiences. His wife left him for another man. I spoke with him on the phone for a long time, and he seemed very genuine that there is no bad intentions. I expressed that I felt ANY interaction or a buildup of a friendship would be a negative impact on our marriage. He sounded very focused on wanting his family back as well and agreed with my views. He verbally agreed to stop talking with her. Not 100% sure what to think about this, but I did feel he was being totally forthright and wanted our marriage to come back together. Any input here?
Well it's two fold. He knows the pain and how fragile the situation is, so he SHOULD know to back off. They are going through the same situation and that might create a "bond".
My X became attracted to a guy she knew(right before BD), and it happend at the time where he had R problems as well. I understood they had been talking alot and felt like they "got" each other when everyone else didn't.
However, don't fight it too much or I think you will just push her further away. Hopefully he knows the right thing to do.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
