How, I say HOW, are you remaining so calm about the OW? My H has just given me a new suspicion of that and I'm beside myself without even a confirmation. (You can see my page if you'd like, for the whole sordid story.)
Well my hats off to you.
And I think they do believe they fool us (and everyone else too), after all, they do fool themselves. They believe their own garbage and expect us to do the same.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.