MrBond you are right. I played a big role in his leaving. Thinking back everytime we got into an argument i told him if he wasnt happy he should leave. Its as if I knew he would leave someday. I always had the feeling he felt like he was being held prisoner and i wanted to release him.

I wish i could go back and have never said those words. I think back and remember when he would hold me and tell me to please be nice to him. I didnt think of it then but those were his hints to me that he wasnt happy. Hindsight is 20 20.

No he wont go to counselling. He had a solo appt with out MC but never showed up. I on the other hand have gone to many solo sessions. What now?

M12
Kids 2
ILYBINILWY 08/05
Reconciled 05/06
S07/12
Moved back 03/13
Separated Again 06/24/13
Back Again (his choice) 02/14
Leaving again 03/23/14
DIVORCED 02/15