Pay no attention to that man behind the curtain.

[reachingHigher]

Hrm, it's so painful to read your post. So much hurt your H dishes out! I think you are doing great with your calm, non-irritating comments and behavior.

I so very much am familiar with the "whatever you want" comments.

Your post makes me want to laugh and throw up at the same time!

Your H is definitely struggling especially now at this holiday season. Keep up the clarity and unconditional love!