Then maybe you should rethink your plan.

Why are you asking her out? I missed that somehow. Is she still living with OM?

If you could ask her and not be affected by her response, it might be worth it.

But if it's going to throw you back into a hole, go slowly.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss