first time need help - still (new thread?)

[albamarie]

Omg, nero my mom is soo horrible she canceled Christmas because I don't live up to her need for attention. We were never close, we went 10yrs without talking. Through my marriage, kids births, and I still tried after 3 attempts over another 10yrs span.

That's why I was so close to h, he was my family of choice, and we made our own family never intruding on anyone, wholesome and true.

I have to db my mom just to keep from detaching from her also, hey I may become a pro at this!

I actually have more patients for h than mom because he has done more and loved me more than she ever did. My dad needs to remove her hand from up his butt so he can finally speak out with a real opinion.

Geeze, you said life is hard, amen.

Glad your home safe, your h is acting different from your first posts. He is phasing that's good, I think, at least maybe there's hope he's not just being a big jerk.