So H got home from trip which we did not talk about. I had text him that there was some trouble with D15 just doing what she wants without permission. He stopped by to discuss what he was going to text her. I told her that might send her over the top because she was already mad at him, but he did it anyway.

I did not get up when he walked in and no attempt to hug or kiss him and he didn't either. I could tell when he was leaving that he was waiting to see if I was going to do something. He said, "well I guess I'm going to go". I said Ok see you! He paused a little and I just kept going about my business.

I then tried calling him because I forgot to ask him if he was going to put up lights for the girls and if he was going to take D15s friend to the airport. No answer so I text and no response. I'm not trying again.

I really got the impression he was looking to me for some affection. I feel like I need to be nice but not push anything even though I know he is thinking about wanting to move back. If he says anything to me I am going to say that I am trying to give him space which is what I have been saying all along.


M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out