Here's a 180 that showed almost immediate response. Which is good coz,sometimes I just need that little sign of change to keep positive about the path I have chosen.
So the other day I asked my dad to show me how to start the lawn mower. H has dropped around a few times to mow the lawns which drove me a bit insane. again its that "I'm a good guy" thing.
Anyway Dad showed me what to then sat back while I mowed my lawns for the first time ever! I swear we were as excited as each other when I was done.
Best of all, at D10's school concert a few days later H leaned across our other daughter and offered to come over this weekend and mow the lawns. So I calmly said " thanks but they have already been done". Yay for me and what great timing!!
And then even better, H dropped by this weekend to "check your dad showed you right"!!!! LOL ...
And to drop off the lawnmower fuel can. That was the only downer, coz why dud he even have our lawnmower fuel can. I try to think on the interaction the 180 created rather than wondering whose lawnmower he has been filling up!!
Me46, H49, D17, D11 M22, T25 BD Dec26 2011 he moved out Feb29 2012