trying to get her back

[sandi2]

Edward, you have to change that attitude or YOU are going to totally ruin any chance of R with her!

I hope she wants to talk about moving back home....but if she sees you acting like this, why in the world would she want to?

You can't afford to act all mad and up in the air with her. That sure isn't attractive! She needs to see you with new & improved behavior/attitude. Coming on like a hot head will not give her much desire to move back.

I realize you are very upset with her, but she has reasons for feeling like she does, right? You know you have not been easy to live with. And I can tell you this much....it would be very rare for a woman to leave a man who is giving her what she needs. That means filling her emotionals needs b/c if she doesn't get that need met....the other things don't hold up very well. Do you know what I mean? But I can't help but wonder if you are so insecure that you can't do that b/c you are always thinking about your needs. It has to be a two-way street. However, right now.....you better be thinking about how you can attract your W again, if you really want her.

Calm yourself before you respond to her, and give yourself a big pep-talk before meeting with her.