Thanks Sandycay, I can't tell you how valuable it is to me to have your input. I'm sorry to hear about how your exH is being; that really stinks. It sounds like you are in a good place now in your new life - I hope so.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.