Terry these last posts sounds much more positive. Sounds like you need a new wardrobe too! If she is physically attracted to you again then you are already making great progress.
Your moods will bounce up and down like a yo yo, the important thing is your W only sees the positive you and thats where S may also help you.
She will be v confused even if she does not show it. The more she sees the new you and potential for a new M the more she will question her choice. Be patient and give her the space she needs.
Good for you stopping the snooping and thats exactly the right thing to do. Be the better man and she will have no need to look elsewhere if there is no A at the moment.
