Sorry for side-tracking the thread, but I appreciate the input.
Originally Posted By: ForeverYoung
So this means you need to buy some more time to give her a chance to change her mind. ANYTHING that can move the date(s) or stall the process and give you more time is good. Are there any practical reasons you can come up with to hold up on the D process?
Maybe. After my last DB Coach session, I decided I would take the rest of the year and make it the very best it can be (and it's pretty damn good). But if we go to court in Jan, I think I will change gears and drop the rope. At that point, I'll have given her 6 months of pretty awesome M to think about. If she still wants out or is confused or just isn't willing to delay the D proceedings, I think I will just cut her loose to go figure it out.
Of course, things can change between now and then so we'll see what happens. But right now it looks more and more like she'll have to go experience life without me to appreciate me.
And with all that said, we still have a pretty expensive home we're trying to unload (which prevents either of us from moving), so if I want to go the delay route, there's certainly good reason.
