I rather have 50/50 custody but right now my W is not mentally and physically health. She gets like 10 hours a sleep the whole week. I know she is under stress and I been telling her, she needs to focus on her health and stop worrying about everything.
My concern is, if she had all 3 kids and fell asleep while driving or while home watching them or etc....
She is a great mom, just right now she is going through her tough times.
The last thing i want to see is something happen on her time with the kids and live with the guilt.
I want our kids to have their mom...I won't deny that. But I do need to do what I think is best for the kids based on current scenario.
She would do the same, if I was not capable.
Not revenge or hate in this....seems like it, but its not.