Ultimately we did talk it out and I did bring her stuff back in. I did apologize but I also don't accept being lied too about the kids. This wasn't about OM, this was about our kids, which I got angry.
The thing is I was also under a lot of stress. Working from home, raising 3 kids, juggling all the household duties. She being gone for the majority of the week. The kids asking me questions about where mom is, me having to cover it up.
No matter how detach you get, life pressures still catch up.
I also know I may have taken 2 steps back. Which I am okay with, I already been at the bottom. No where to go but up.
I still standby that I what her happy.....but not at the expense of our kids. It's one of those moments where I felt anger.
But I learned something, she can't anger me anymore with OM, but I am still fragile when it comes to our kids.