The truth of the matter is that in the last few years we have become very independent since we were long distance - which was identified by him as one of the main problems with our relationship (although at one time my independence is what he loved about me!)
My H initially liked the fact that I am fairly reserved, rather a quiet person. He found it "classy".
Now, I am an "introvert" and hindering his social life. (Never mind the fact that I am the only one of the two of us to have friends!) And I have been encouraging him for years to find a group to do "guy stuff" with - but he never finds anyone "compatible"...
I guess they do their own 180's, but without rhyme or reason.
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So, deep breath. Let go of him and hold onto me. Gotcha!
Sounds like a great plan! Sorry to hear of your ill parent. So much to deal with at this time of year.
Do keep us posted/updated! Best wishes
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
So much to deal with at this time of year. 
