Thanks subguy, I am trying to not let it bother me but you know how that is , lol
If we were to "compete" with him in his crazyland, and we should NOT do so b/c we like the planet earth, then at least get real and see this for what it is... it's A VICTORY! You got to HIM!
He cannot stand that you won't engage w/him and he fears you have big plans with some OM or something b/c why else would he imply that the kids either complained (as if they'd be left alone)?
I don't see how you can honestly feel insulted by this. Sure it's nuts, b/c you said NOTHING to him, so where's the spew?
And there must be some trouble in paradise or he wouldn't share all his issues with the OW's job and kids AND he would NOT NEED MONEY FROM YOU...OMG!!...
That is why it makes me laugh and shake my head and say, "gee, i guess SOMETHING is Not going so well with HIM"
and your reward is NOT spending another ounce of energy on it...
(unless you want to pat yourself on the back a little).
But all you have to do now is GAL and Make sure the kids are clear on what is happening with YOU and the good stuff going on for you AND THEM...
(don't worry about HIM, b/c he's not your problem)
and create some good memories for THEM and YOU...
It's about time. He's not in your life for all intents and purposes.
If he somehow corners you into a conversation that you cannot avoid, really Lisa what is there to say? He's with OW and she's not the first and won't be the last.
What WIFE has to say anything to that? IF he wants to tell himself he's "trying to be friends" or some other BS, tell him to call you at your youngest's wedding or some other big family event in a decade or two and MAYBE then you guys can be all hunky dory.
For now, you have had an awakening and are simply too busy GAL to deal with his bad behavior and let's face it, HIS behavior is terrible by any standards.
Don't let him drag you into his delusions...you are on earth Lisa. We don't know where he lives...
And real h's don't cheat on their wives AND ask for money AND get angry when their wives FINALLY stop engaging...
Keep up the great work!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
