Wow Terry, that last post sounds great! You really are getting yourself on track quickly. Keep it up, for you, your D and your wife.

It seems that almost everyone recommends DR over DB. I have both, but have only read DR.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl