I want to echo what snodderly and AJ said about the changes. I'm not D yet but expect to be a month from tomorrow.
I did all the changes H requested. Some I wanted for myself and am happy with.
This summer my H told me he liked me just the way I was (with changes). There isn't a thing he'd want different about me.
He's pursuing D anyway. It really is all about them not us. Not that there isn't some updating we all can do
It's so nice to tell your H he is gracious. I think you are the one that is gracious
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway