In my opinion, one of the reasons why my timeline is 6 months is because I am willing to see what happens. This even means if she has multiple OM (nightmare scenerio). The only thing I can do now is, continue to DB, 180, and GAL for myself. If she see's the changes, I hope she is thinking "I would be a fool to leave this marriage". I can't control her actions with the OM, her mind, etc. I only want to show that, I am there for her through this tough time and if its without me, then fine.
To this:
Originally Posted By: lostsoul13
Had enough, I threw all her stuff outside. Told her I am done, enjoy your new life. I can't take the lying, I can't take her attitude towards the kids....
Now I am debating if I can win full custody of the kids...
Lie about the affair, lie about being too tired for the kids, then lying again about something so stupid.
All she had to do was tell me earlier she wanted to go out......
Well now I dropped that rope and there is no turning back.
In two days because of a few lies?
What page in DR/DB is this technique on?
Giving up at any time is always our option. But doing it with such anger is not in our best interest.
I think you guys can still turn this around but you may have made it more difficult for yourself. I'm wishing the best for you and your family, LS.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
