afa, just keep standing back and doing your thing. Don't be so focused on her.

I know how hard it is to do, believe me. But it is so worth it.

You do have to work on it otherwise your mind will stay stuck in the rut.

Time also helps.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss