Yes, he is a selfish person. He has taken to calling my home phone and his emails arent really about the kids. He tells me his ow/gf that he is living with is telling him to get a different place to live bc she says she wants his kids to have separated bedrooms for whenever they visit and stay with H. As i have mentioned she is 25 well she just turned 26 and has 2 kids herself that drive her crazy. H informed me through an email that she was quitting her one job and just waitressing on the weekend. Are you serious? I know my focus should NOT be on ow but she takes one kid to school one to daycare and sits home all day? Ow is separated from her h and he has the kids half time so sometimes she doesnt even have kids to take care of wow so much for that ambitious go-getter that he said she was.
Anyway H's requests for money continued tille he got paid yesterday. Well another email came telling me he quit his job and got one here in our town and he will start that one Monday. Great! Also this morning was an email that he found and was looking at an apt but that if he couldnt get it he was going to have to go to an extended stay hotel. I havent responded to these emails but WOW, how bad is it that he has to stay in an extended stay and get out of her apt ASAP. Is the bloom coming off the rose?
I am just glad that I am changing myself for the better and wont get dragged through this again. My babies deserve better.
Lisa
Me:37 H:38 6 kids first bomb 8/05 (ow involved) piecing 7/06 second bomb 3/07 ow involved wash rinse repeat.... huge move to start over 2/11 more affairs H left for good 8/12
