I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt that he was doing it out of humor or at least just ignorance. It's a stretch for me though.
That being said, when do girls start shaving their legs nowadays? I don't think I did until 7th or 8th grade, but everything is happening younger now. I remember my mom making a big ugly deal about it though. I was pretty hairy, too. Are you opposed to letting her start? You can't undo what H did but it doesn't have to be a big problem for your D9.
