Honestly, am SO glad my H didn't do this a few years ago. My children are D9 and S8. I'm pretty sure my H struggles to look after them now. I could count on my hands the number of nappies he changed between my TWO children. That's part of the reason I never when out and left him with them.
She needs to know that you can look after your S! I'm sorry but I can understand her not wanting to leave him with you and I wouldn't be surprised if the courts felt the same way. You need to ask her to teach you how to do these things.
My advice would be next time you see your S, ask your W if she can let you do everything for your S. Ask her to show you, if need be. If you want unsupervised visits, you are going to have to do EVERYTHING for him.
M: 29, H: 31 D: 9 S: 8 T: 13 Y M: 9 Y ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012 ~~~~ Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles. ~~~ it Emptys today of its strengths
