I had my IC session today, which was not nearly as exciting as usual since we had no drama this week.
The one thing I decided was that I'm not going to allow ML if I can't sleep in my own bed. I think that's a pretty fair trade off. H does well on a once a week schedule, but can go without for a fairly long while... unfortunately I have never been able to use sex for leverage with him. So I'm not sure it will work this time either, but my IC advised it to phrase it such as "I'm not comfortable with ML and then having to go sleep in the other room."
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.
"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page