She just kept talking about how wrong her friend was. It took every ounce of fortitude that I had to keep quiet and not say anything about us or how I was really feeling. I actually managed to show a little support for W saying how friend is strong willed and can be judgmental. Has my W forgotten I'm the one she's wanting to D???
She's confiding her feeling with you, my wife does the same. I see this as a good thing and try to build on it. It's better they feel comfortable telling us instead of only others.
One thing WAW's often say is "OM understands me". Poop on that, I want to be the one who W feels understands her.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
