Have you changed a diaper of your son's yet? I ask this b/c you said you've never cared for him on your own at all. I need to know what your wife has seen you do for your son. The more she sees you do on your own, the better.
Well, no. But the other day, about a month ago, at the library, I offered to help, so I held his legs up, while she was cleaning his bum. Ok, it wasn't much, but it's the goodwill that counts, right?
And, btw, I never told her about my pain to her.
And my letters did not negate her reasons to be mad. In fact, they validated it by saying : I understand your not wanting to see me right now, I know I have "screwed up", I apologize, and even I respect your decision.
Now, you're right, saying it doesn't make things right. I have to act on it too, and consistently (it's been 5 months already).
By "dissolved", I meant spirited away. I have stopped the bad things, no more reasons to accuse me of anything. I am not giving more ammo than necessary. Her resentment and grudge are enough as it is.
Bien le bonsoir, B.
Me:34 ; W:28 Son: almost 2. Married : 14 March 2009 DBomb : 18 June 2012 Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries) Same country and city since July 2012
