MissA, what a well written thoughtful post. You are able to detach and love your H at the same time. I'm sure you are a terrific mom, and your boys are so blessed to have you in their lives as a solid rock as they negotiate these important years.

Keep up the positive attitude and good work!

What's this weekend hold for you?

Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway