Terry forgot to say when I said talk to friends make sure they are close friends who u can trust. U don't want any confidence betraying so be careful in that respect. I have a click of v close friends who I have know years who don't judge me or my decisions. My W has managed to alienate a lot of our mutual friends against me so be prepared for that. It may not happen but those r the people u don't want to talk to about your W. If that makes sense?