I've been reading though lots of threads and it seems like these things almost never straighten back out once they reach the point of separation. I would be lying if I said I wasn't discouraged, but I am going to keep up the fight. Looking for some motivation from my phone coaching today
Again I have a rueful smile as I read this. The statistics are not in your favor because by the time you admit you have a problem things are reeeeaaallly bad.
But sometimes marriages are reconciled, so that's what we shoot for.
My idea of success has changed since I came here.At that time I hated to read those posts about how life was wonderful without H and now my thread is becoming that. Don't worry abut the future, just take each day as it comes and work on yourself.
Saving yourself and becoming a better person is a good goal and sometimes through that marriages are saved.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
