I feel sad for you. I found out yesterday that my husband has a lawyer. He was the one that didn't want lawyers and was wanting to work out financials on our own. Now he is pushing forward. This person who is dragging me down is a complete stranger. I stayed home from work today going thru paper and receipts and crying. It's late afternoon and I'm still in my pjs. I feel like I have a hole inside of me. It's such an empty feeling. Depression is hitting so hard today. I'm sorry you have to go thru this too. It's not what our dream was when we got married. We had wonderful husbands and fathers to our children. Now we are facing a total stranger that is changing our life forever. It's hard to stay strong. You are going to be surrounded by your beautiful children. They will be your inspiration to stay strong. I wish my daughters were younger. I'm losing both of them next year. They will both be in college. I try not to think that far ahead. One day at a time, right? Maybe one minute at a time?!
