TheUF - Changing gears - Dropping the rope?

[theUF]

So we had 2 get togethers b/c of son the last days.
No R/OR talks and just smiles and laughs. Almost felt like how things were before.

We discussed a couple things like work, S, living arrangements etc.

Because of work I will have little time to see S in the weekdays for a couple of weeks. She would let me have him in the weekends instead. I'm really glad she was open to making an arrangement. I will miss S for sure!

She is coming to collect her furniture this weekend. Turns out she couldn't get help so she is asking me to help getting the stuff out of my appartment and she would handle the rest. I was set on not helping her move her stuff out since this was solely her decision, but I feel like a jerk if I refuse to help her get the stuff out into the car. I know some here say "don't help them move out".

She also mentioned as well as me having him in the weekends I could stop by her new appartment after work to spend time with him. She knows he will be asleep after work, so I didn't really answer to that. I also didn't think she would like having me around.

Today she was happy, joking, laughing at my jokes. She wanted to grab some food after S exercise. I said ok to grab a quick snack. She then started asking if she could stop by today and get some stuff from my place. I said no.



Even though weak, she sometimes gives of mixed signals. I don't read to much into it though. It is what is, and I will continue my path towards a better me and a better life.

Do people really think I shouldn't help her get her stuff out of my appartment?