AnotherStander, I hope your right because I don't feel strong enough to get through this. I know I have to for my D.
MANY of us have been right where you are. You CAN do it. Believe me, if I can do it then anyone can, because I felt pathetic, worthless and powerless when I was at the bottom.
Not sure how bad your depression is, but if you have ANY suicidal thoughts at all then go immediately to your PCP and get tested for depression and discuss treatment options. Often counseling is not enough. It wasn't for me. I hate hate hate med's, but I don't think I could have made it out of the pit without them.