Another stander. Please don't give up. I'm sorry I'm hurting and confused and don't want this to be it. My therapist told me that DB was a counterproductive technique to getting back my marriage. I believe him for a long time because I was paying good money to him. Then when the things he had me try didn't work, I had to give it a shot.
It's because of him I was very skeptical. However, I do need to do something different. I'm scared to read the book again honestly, because I see so many stories around here and almost no marriages are saved.
If you don't think you can help, I will go back to the MB site.
