Sounds good. One thing you might think about is, what if things turned around....what if you did R. Realize this might take a year or two. And if so, looking back on it a couple years from now, what do you think would have been the signals that things were improving...the baby steps if you will? Sometimes that helps me with the impatience.
Originally Posted By: Spartan
Just strange because I never put a lot of thought into rings and never really noticed them on people. Now I hate not having one and since this started I'm noticing them on what seems like everyone
I think a lot of us struggle with this one. My W still wears hers 95% of the time and I took mine off a couple of times only to finally decide I would wear it until D was final as a symbol of my commitment to the M. Fast forward a few months and I don't wear mine at all any more. I'm down about 15lbs for the year (looking like I did when I was 25!) and now its just a little big. I try to wear it when we go to church or to an event, but I'd like to get a new set if we R. W has tried to find our original rings thinking I'd fit into that one, but we haven't found it yet...but the fact that she noticed was interesting.
