"W, I really struggle to read your mind when I'm awake. It's especially hard when I'm sleeping. I'm willing to help, but you need to ask me."
Pretty good comeback but I hope you aren't trying to read her mind. Keep reminding her "I want to help but you sometimes have to tell me what you need."
Do you really not hear your son at night?
No, I'm not actually trying to read her mind.
I do hear my son, but I don't wake as quickly as W. Before I realize he's awake, she's already up with him. She's a very light sleeper in comparison.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done