Other thing that has been bothering me is not wearing ring. W took hers off when she filed (normal WAS behavior I think) and I didn't let it bother me too much. When I hit my breaking point a couple weeks ago I stopped wearing mine and haven't put it on since. I've worn that thing 15 years and I honestly hate not having it on now even with sitch. My D7 actually said something about me not having it on last weekend when we were all together that I didn't respond to but know W knows it's off. I can't put it back on because I don't want to give any mixed signals to W (or to me). I've told myself that my old marriage is dead and gone so I shouldn't put that ring back on until we've at least decided to try and reconcile and possibly wait for her to put her's back on.
Just strange because I never put a lot of thought into rings and never really noticed them on people. Now I hate not having one and since this started I'm noticing them on what seems like everyone
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