Val: I think we all got calls for our ex after they left. Especially when many of them never bothered to give out their new numbers. But even if they did - there are many that can be missed until something comes up.

I'm not sure what the problem is here. The calls obviously triggered something in you. The only reasonable thing to do was to give them her number and let it go.

Redirect your thoughts. I doubt there is anything else you can do right now.

Barb