- It does get harder, especially when you start telling people. I really choked up the first few weeks, but to my good friends I said no sympathy, no tears and I can discuss this-otherwise I am done in. - I am very up front with my part in breakup, saying my behaviour was just as much too blame. If friends ask, I also say, I wanted to work on marriage and still love H, but I cannot make H do what he does not feel is best for him. - I also am at separation, but don't put yourself at divorce yet - The kids will find it tough, but I will tell you they have known for a while. Maybe not all the particulars, but they have known - Hugs to you. and congrats on the convo with H and S. Nicely done!
